Never explain yourself...
Those who like you does not need it. Those who dislike you will not believe it.
Wah! This is a lesson I learned the hard way.
It slapped me on the face twice, and both incidents happened barely two weeks apart. Haizt....
The first incident was not really something of a bitter medicine. I was actually on a high when that happened, so I dismissed the incident as a "not really a serious case of behavioral disorder ".
However, the second one was really a bitter medicine to my habit of constantly explaining everything that I am and everyting that I do to everyone.
It happened when a girl I just met asked a favor from me, and in a sudden surge of insecurity, shamefulness and panic, I gave an UNNECESSARY explanation regarding (or better yet... a story behind) the matter.
Doesn't sound like a problem, right?
But, here is the thing... the catch... or whatever you call it...
I lied.
Yes... What I told her was a lie.
I did not feel well afterwards. It's like something fell heavily on me. I know what that is called: GUILT.
I felt so guilty, all I wanted to do was to run away.
I wish I did. I wish I could. But, I couldn't.
Several minutes afterwards, something like an alarm was ringing inside me.
I have a habit, a DISEASE, that can eventually ruin me.
Let this become a warning. Never explain yourself to anyone. You can never be held accountable for choosing not to, and you can be ruined by the words that go out of your mouth.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Never explain yourself...
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This is very true. I used to have the same habit. Hopefully you will also grow out of it one day. :) Never give an explanation unless it is asked for.
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